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Ernest Hemingway to F. Scott Fitzgerald: “Scott you prat”

So everyone knows Hemingway was a bruiser. Some of the best stories of his macho posturing involve fellow writers. There was, of course, that time he and Wallace Stevens slugged it out in Key West. I’ve been told Stevens asked for it, drunkenly telling Hemingway’s sister Ursula that her brother wrote like a little boy. I don’t know whose version of the story this comes from, but by all accounts, Hemingway knocked the bear of a poet down several times. The two made up soon after. Then there’s the story of Hemingway and James Joyce; the diminutive Irish writer apparently hid behind his pugnacious friend when trouble loomed.
There are many other such yarns, I’m sure, but one I’ve just learned of shows us a much more passive-aggressive side of Papa H. As the John F. Kennedy Presidential Library blog informs us, Hemingway once sent F. Scott Fitzgerald a typescript of A Farewell to Arms. Fitzgerald sent back ten pages of edits and comments, signing off with “A beautiful book it is!” You can see Hemingway’s first reaction above (signed EH). In later drafts, it seems, he took some of Fitzgerald’s advice to heart.
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Dylan Thomas Sketches a Caricature of a Drunken Dylan Thomas

Dylan Thomas’s drinking was legendary. Stories of the debauched and disheveled Welsh poet’s epic drinking binges have had a tendency to drown out serious discussion of his poetry.
It’s a legend that Thomas helped promote, as this pencil sketch he made of himself attests. The undated self-caricature was published in Donald Friedman’s 2007 book, The Writer’s Brush: Paintings, Drawings, and Sculpture by Writers.
It depicts a teetering, goggle-eyed figure with tumbler in hand, happily surrounded by bottles.
Thomas would sometimes tell his friends he had cirrhosis of the liver, but his autopsy eventually disproved this. As legend has it, the poet literally drank himself to death on his American tour in the fall of 1953, when he was 39 years old. In fact, it appears Thomas may have been a victim of medical malpractice. He went to his doctor complaining of difficulty breathing. The doctor was aware of the poet’s reputation as a drinker, and had been informed by Thomas’s companion of his now-famous statement from the night before: “I’ve had 18 straight whiskies. I think that’s the record.”
So the doctor treated Thomas for alcoholism and didn’t discover he was suffering from pneumonia. He gave Thomas three injections of morphine, which can slow respiration. Thomas’s face turned blue and he went into a coma. He died four days later. When Thomas’s friends investigated, they determined he had likely consumed, at most, eight whiskies. That’s still a large amount, but the poet’s exaggeration appears to have led his doctor astray. In a sense, then, Dylan Thomas was killed not by his drinking, but by the legend of his drinking.

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Jimi Hendrix’s Final Interview on September 11, 1970

There’s not much left to say about Jimi Hendrix’s last days. The endless stream of commentary surrounding his life and death threatens to bury the man and his music in music-press fetishization, urban legend, and fawning mythology. When I’m able to totally tune out the hype, Hendrix’s polished work stands the time-test, and some of the more raw releases—the bootlegs and demos that appear every few years—at least document musical roads not taken and preserve moments of stunning genius, if not fully-realized compositions.

And Hendrix’s intriguing persona—revealed in casual interviews and conversations—still captivates, with his offhand lyricism and fractal imagination, qualities on full display in his final press interview, to NME’s Keith Allston, on September 11, 1970, just seven days before the artist’s death. (Listen to the YouTube audio above, or Soundcloud below.) Hendrix is breezy, contemplative, a little evasive, revealing his own sense of being between things, not sure where he’s headed next. As all those late-Hendrix bootlegs and demos testify, he could have done anything and made it work with the right band and a bit more time…
But enough what-ifs. Nobody’s better on Hendrix than Hendrix, so listen to the interview. You can find a full transcript and much more Hendrix-on-Hendrix and music-press chatter in a recent (and quite inexpensive) Kindle publication called Jimi Hendrix: Interviews and Reviews 1967-71. Ultimate Classic Rock calls the final interview the “most interesting thing about the book from a historical standpoint,” and this may be true.
Finally, if you don’t make it all the way to the end of the audio, Hendrix leaves on this vivid and quite funny note:
ALTHAM: Do you feel personally that you have enough money to live comfortably without necessarily making more as a sort of professional entertainer?
HENDRIX: Ah, I don’t think so, not the way I’d like to live, because like I want to get up in the morning and just roll over in my bed into an indoor swimming pool and then swim to the breakfast table, come up for air and get maybe a drink of orange juice or something like that. Then just flop over from the chair into the swimming pool, swim into the bathroom and go on and shave and whatever.
ALTHAM: You don’t want to live just comfortably, you wanna live luxuriously?
HENDRIX: No! Is that luxurious? I was thinking about a tent, maybe, [laughs] overhanging … overhanging this … a mountain stream! [laughter].
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Eric Clapton to be a grandfather - report

Music legend Eric Clapton is set to be a grandfather for the first time - his daughter Ruth is expecting her first child, according to a U.K. report.
The Layla hit maker's eldest child is due later this month (May13) and the rocker is looking forward to his new role.
A source tells Britain's Daily Mail, "The baby is due any day and Eric is ecstatic."
Clapton was married to his first wife Pattie Boyd when he embarked on an affair with Ruth's mother, Yvonne Kelly. Ruth was born in 1985 but was not publicly revealed as his daughter until 1991.
She tied the knot with her architect partner Dean Bartlett in 2011 and her father performed at their wedding, which was held at his Surrey, England mansion.
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The Morning Roundup: Kelly Rowland Jealous Of Beyonce's Success, Miley Cyrus Still Engaged

Maxim's 2013 Hot 100 Party Pics: Miley Cyrus, Kellie Pickler & More!

Former Destiny's Child singer Kelly Rowland reveals that she's jealous of former bandmate Beyonce's mega-success and that she was abused on new single "Dirty Laundry." She says she's happy for Beyonce, but also questioned the significance of her own career while her friend was becoming a superstar. Kelly also says in the lyrics that she was physically and mentally abused by a past lover. (story)
James Franco has attempted to adapt and film the "unfilmable" William Falkner novel "As I Lay Dying." It's taken 80 years for the story to hit the screen. (story)
Carrie Underwood predicted her own future while in high school. The 30-year-old country singer is featured in the June Marie Claire magazine, and she said that she wrote that she would be "rich, famous, and married to a hot guy" within 10 years of graduating. Two-out-of-three ain't bad. (story)
Rod Stewart once tried seducing a transvestite while on tour in Australia. It was during the 1970s when he saw an attractive woman sitting at a bar. After the singer got they young lady back to his hotel room he found a big surprise in "her" pants. (story)
Now that Angelina Jolie has shared her double mastectomy story with the world, once the press dies down will there be wedding bells? Brad Pitt has hinted that this is the year, and with few projects in the works for each, it's a good bet they'll be staying in the press for a while. (story)
Kanye West got his $750,000 Lamborghini caught in a closing gate at Kim Kardashian's house. It hasn't been a great week for the rapper, he slammed his head on a sign post and it was caught on film by the paparazzi, too. (story)
Shakira is leaving the red judge's chair on The Voice to focus on raising her 4-month-old son, Milan, leaving the door open for Christina Aguilera's return. Aguilera signed a $12 million deal to return to her old post in September. (story)
Only one week left until the winner of the latest season of "Dancing With The Stars" is crowned. Who will it be? The final four were revealed on the show's 300th episode this week. Can favorit Zendaya pull off the win and grab the Mirror Ball Trophy? (story)
It's not the best one and it's not the worst one, but "Star Trek Into Darkness" packs plenty of flash and even has a few surprises. But the plot is "unoriginal" and "lacked [the] complexities of other films in the franchise," according to our review team. (story)
Miley Cyrus was spotted wearing her engagement ring at Maxim Magazine's 2013 Hot 100 Party -- but fiance Liam Hemsworth was nowhere to be seen (as usual). Check out photos from the party, including Kellie Pickler and Kendra Wilkinson. (story)
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Beyonce Apologizes To Belgian Fans For Postponing Concert

International superstar Beyonce has written a handwritten note apologizing to fans for scrapping a performance in Belgium on Tuesday.
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singer was advised to cancel the show in Antwerp on doctor's orders after suffering from dehydration and exhaustion, fuelling ongoing rumors she is expecting her second child with husband Jay-Z.
Now, Beyonce has uploaded a note to revelers left disappointed by the postponed show, and vowed to be back on stage at the Sportpaleis arena in Antwerp on Wednesday night.
A picture of the letter was posted on Facebook
, and reads, "To my dearest fans in Antwerp. I've never postponed a show in my life. It was very hard for me. I promise I will make it up for you soon. I'm sorry if I disappointed you."
"Thank you for your concern. I am feeling much better now and am ready to give you a great show. See you tonight."
The axed show will be rescheduled at a later date.


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'New Girl' Season 2 Finale Recap: 'Elaine's Big Day'

Are you old enough to remember "that girl"?

no, well in the 60's there was a tv show called that . If you are a fan of the "new girl"you might check out "that girl"I bet there are even the same storylines!!
New Girl” season finale, CeCe’s big day turned out to be an even bigger day for someone else. That, along with a few pranks, a frisky badger and the rise of a new love triangle, made for a satisfying end to a hilarious and upbeat sophomore season.
In the “The day of CeCe’s wedding found Nick and Jess in a happy and joyous mood. The two spent much of their time flirting with one another, to the disproval of Jess’ dad (Rob Reiner) and the annoyance of the other roommates. Winston and Schmidt were particularly annoyed when a more grown-up Nick refused to take part in their silly hijinks, which Schmidt coerced Winston into doing with him in an attempt to stop the wedding. Why would Schmidt even do such a thing, you ask?
Via “eye conversation” Schmidt was able to understand CeCe’s hesitation in marrying Shivrang, and he threw all caution to the wind with his funny—if not dangerous—pranks. It should be noted that any danger that came from the pranks was all Winston’s doing. A self-proclaimed horrible prankster, Winston had all but given up on physical jokes as he was just not good at them. But ever the loyal roommate, Winston joined in Schmidt’s shenanigans until he took it one step too far. This led the Winston, Nick and a badger being trapped in the air condition vents as they attempted to drop the badger on the priest. (Winston has a weird and twister sense of humor.)
Nick’s initial refusal to join Schmidt and Winston in their childish games lasted only two pranks, and even then he remained hesitant and unfocused. Jess had wrongly accused Nick of trying to ruin her best friend’s wedding day, pointing out and agreeing with all the flaws her father saw in Nick after mistaking one of Winston’s horrible jokes as Nick’s doing. The two ultimately made amends while trapped with Winston and the badger in the vents, and they even shared a sweet, tender moment, only to come crashing—literally—back to reality.
Jess, Nick and the badger ruined the wedding ceremony, but it was never meant to be. The crash served as a wake-up call for CeCe, who admitted that she was unable to wed Shivrang as she was in love with someone else. Shivrang, surprisingly, didn’t seem to cut up about it. In fact, he proudly professed his love for another woman—Elaine, played by guest star Taylor Swift. After a brief monologue about her love for “Shivy,” Elaine jumped into Shivrang’s arms and he happily whisked her out of the venue.
With Shivrang finally out of the picture, CeCe was able to admit her true feelings for Schmidt, whose “eye conversation” abilities were stronger than what others gave him credit for. Unfortunately for CeCe, Schmidt is still dating Elizabeth—at least for now. When CeCe and Elizabeth ganged up on Schmidt and demanded an answer and an end to this newly formed love triangle, Schmidt foolishly sprinted away.
As this drama unfolded for CeCe, Nick and Jess decided to call off their sort-of relationship. A tearful Jess indicated her true feelings, while a stubborn Nick turned to alcohol to swallow his. It took Winston, finally free from the air vent hell he was seemingly trapped in for hours, to make Nick realize the need to create something with Jess—whatever it may be.
After a passionate kiss and quick reconciliation, Nick and Jess drove down the empty streets of Los Angeles together, not quite in a relationship but not quite out of one either.
What did you think of the episode? Do you think Nick and Jess will make it official? Will Schmidt choose CeCe or Elizabeth?

Celebrity Birthdays - May 16, 2013

Happy Birthday to:

Actress/model Megan Fox (1986)
Actor Miles Heizer (1994)
Actor Thomas Sangster (1990)
Actor Jim Sturgess (1981)
Actress Jessica Morris (1979)
Actress Melanie Lynskey (1977)
Singer Laura Pausini (1974)
Actor Adam Richman (1974)
Actress Tori Spelling (1973)
Actor David Boreanaz (1971)
Aussie singer/actress Danielle Spencer (1978)
Actor Derek Mears (1972)
Pop icon Janet Jackson (1966)
Nirvana bassist Krist Novoselic (1965)
Dave Matthews Band violinist Boyd Tinsley (1964)
Actor Kevin McDonald (1961)
Actress Mare Winningham (1959)
Actress Debra Winger (1955)
Actor Pierce Brosnan (1953)
Actor Bill Smitrovich (1947)
Actor Danny Trejo (1944)
Actress Yvonne Craig (1937)
Actor Harry Carey Jr. (1921)
Flamboyant pianist Liberace (1919; d. 1987)
Screen legend Henry Fonda (1905; d. 1982)
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Maxim's 2013 Hot 100 Party Pics: Miley Cyrus, Kellie Pickler & More!

Miley Cyrus, who snagged the top spot on the Maxim Hot 100 list, attended the magazine's Hot 100 party at The Vanguard in Hollywood, Calif., on Wednesday night with a slew of other sexy stars.
The singer/actress wore a cute black and white jumpsuit with a giant bow on the back, revealing several of her tattoos. Cyrus slicked back her short blondish/brown hair and wore bright red lipstick. She also wore her engagement ring after months of speculation that she and fiance Liam Hemsworth split up.
The former "Hannah Montana" star was so excited about the Hot 100 designation that she broke the news on Instagram earlier this month before Maxim made the official announcement.
Some were surprised that Cyrus was the winner, but Maxim executive editor Patrick Carone explained that online voters overwhelmingly favored her over other contenders.
Stars including Selena Gomez, Rihanna, Mila Kunis and Jennifer Lawrence also came in at the top of the pack.

 

Teenage Party Dresses Gallery

For a causal summer party, select a style that is easy to wear but also warm-weather friendly. Additionally, if you find the dress you've selected is a bit short, then choose flats, for example flat sandals, over heels. This will give the illusion of length while providing additional comfort.

With all the great options for teen party dresses, you're sure to find a style that perfect for you coloring, body type, and event.

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Juniors Trendy Summer Clothing Pictures

Teens typically look forward to the long, lazy days of summer. Once school is out, there is more time for outdoor sports, sleeping in and spending time on hobbies. With so many activities from which to choose, a wardrobe that suits warmer, and usually more active, days is a necessity. Stay cool and fashionable this summer with these trendy wardrobe ideas for the warmest months of the year.

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Teen Dating: Tips from an Expert

Teen dating is a big step toward adulthood. LoveToKnow had the opportunity to chat with Mary Jo Rapini, speaker, psychotherapist, and author of Start Talking: A Girl's Guide for You and Your Mom about Health, Sex or WhateverMary Jo Rapini. She's worked with teens since the 90s and offers insight into how parents and teens can handle heartbreak, dating challenges, and more.
LoveToKnow (LTK): What are some ways teens can approach their parents when they want to begin dating?
Mary Jo Rapini (MJR): Well, the most important thing is that they keep communication open and that means both people. When kids are able to tell parents that they met someone, the more rational they are, the more likely parents are to talk about it. [Teens can] get emotional, and when they start talking when they're tired and feeling hormonal, this scares the parents. They're dramatic and not thinking clearly, so parents will close the topic before it's even explored or talked about.
I advise when their child wants to date someone, that's a great opportunity for the parents to invite the other child over. When your child wants to date and you get to meet the person they want to date, you'll be able to see the child's emotional development and self-esteem by what types of people they attract.
LTK: Sometimes teens may want to talk to their parents about a relationship, but they aren't sure how to begin. Do you have any tips for teens who want advice from their mom or dad but don't know where to start?
MJR: What I usually suggest is that parents of children around the age of 9, 10, or 11, start having dates with their child-go for coffee, go for a walk. Start making times when you're 100 percent attentive with your child. This time's not about lecturing but about listening, and when the teen asks for help or advice, tell what you learned from your experience. When parents start lecturing, teens tune that out. They do want to hear what mistakes you made.
You can even watch TV and talk together about the characters, what teens think, what the characters seem to think. When you have family dinners and talk about what happened or transpired that day, what you heard on TV or the radio, that does really help.
Parents also need to set goals for no TV; try for two to three times per week. You want to remember as a parent that kids are being inundated with information unless you make a routine time to shut the cell phones off and they can't tweet or get texts. If you don't protect that time, your child is pretty much unprotected at any time. When kids act out or become more demanding, they're really reacting to not having you around, not having you engaged in their life. That makes kids angry; they really do appreciate it even if they're saying "get off my back."
LTK: Do you have any tips for teens dealing with heartbreak?
MJR: I think what really is important is for them to know that this happens to everybody and the fact that they broke up is because something was wrong with the relationship. Heal from it by surrounding yourself with friends and family. When you're feeling down and discouraged, pump yourself up with the people who love you most-family dinners, church together, those routines help you feel stable at a time when you're usually not.
For teens, the best way to show this person you broke up with that you're still a strong person is by continuing to take care of yourself. Pamper yourself and show what a strong individual you really are. Teens say all the time, "I just want to tell them that I found out they were cheating." The hardest thing is for me to convince that teen that it's not going to help, it will make them appear weaker and make them feel worse rather than better.
LTK: How should a teen handle a situation where the person they're on a date with is trying to move too quickly (physical contact, for example)? What about when they're in a relationship and their boyfriend or girlfriend starts pressuring them for sex?
MJR: I think the most important thing is for parents-the minute your teen starts dating--is for you to sit down and talk to your teen about what this means and where they see the relationship going. The reason guys want to have sex is because they're curious and want to increase status. Girls want to secure the relationship they have with the boy and they want to feel more grown up. Found further down on the list is that they really wanted to do it. If you're being pressured for sex, it's important that you tell this person, "You're really special to me. You're a good friend. You mean a lot to me, and I don't want to have sex. This is stronger than sex. And I'm not ready to deal with those consequences."
Parents always want to impress upon a child that it's their own body and they do have a right to say no, and they will be more respected for it. I can't say enough about parents staying engaged with their kids. Sex isn't a bad thing , but it's unhealthy until you're ready to deal with the consequences.
LTK: What should a teen do if their parents don't like who they're dating?
MJR: If your parents don't like who you're dating, the chances are high that your parents don't really know them. If the parents don't like who you're dating and you're sure that this is a person that's good for you, ask your parents if you can invite the person for dinner. Ask if you and your boyfriend or girlfriend can make dinner for them. That's a wonderful way for parents to get to know the person. Sometimes parents may say they don't like someone you're dating because they don't like the way the person treats you or don't like the way they address the parents. Remain calm, explain it, and invite your friend to be part of the conversation or at least educate your friend. A lot of times, kids will change if they like the person, and they will make changes for that person's parents.
LTK: What are some of the challenges for teens dating today that their parents may not have experience with? How can they overcome those challenges?
MJR: I think one of the biggest things I work with is the cyber bullying. Parents had to put up with bullying, but they never had access to email and text and sexting and all this stuff 24 hours a day. That is so difficult. Parents need to make sure they're monitoring the computer and they know who their [teen's] friends are, and that they're honest about not talking to people they don't know online. It all comes down to communication, once again. The more the teen sees their parent as part of their team, the more they will feel they can go to their parents.
The other thing that is so incredible is these social networks, and the teens don't understand that whatever you put out on Facebook or MySpace or whatever you're doing, that remains permanent. Teens 15-16, in five or six years, will need a good job, and everything that they place on that board can be retrieved by potential employers.
Another thing that's just gone way beyond anything we've experienced in the parents' generation is that some taboos no longer exist. Teens talk to parents about being pregnant or about sexuality and feeling isolated and alone. Ninety percent of teens say parents are the first people they go to.
LTK: You mention in your book that 16 is a good age to begin dating. Do you have any general tips for teens who are about to go on their first date?
MJR: The way they're dating now, they pretty much go in groups. If it's a first date and you're sixteen, try and make the date more about the experience rather than what it means (are you boyfriend/girlfriend, going to be boyfriend/girlfriend…?) Make yourself as much a part of the present as possible, getting to know the person. Keep your promises to your mom or dad. Tell them the truth about where you're going, and make sure they can call in during that date and check in on you. Don't ever go out and do anything that doesn't feel right in your gut. If it feels that the date is going too fast or they just want sex or a nude picture, tell yourself you're too good for that and don't go. It's better to know up front rather than later when it could hurt you more.
LTK: Do you have any tips for taking a long-time friendship to a relationship?
MJR: Actually the best relationships are made when it starts as a friendship. Do not add sex into the cycle until you are ready to deal with the consequences like pregnancy, STDs, or the break-up of that friendship. Teens should wait until after high school, get into college, and see if they can maintain that relationship. Then you're in a better position. Teens who wait to have sex make better friends and lovers and make better choices in partners later. Timing is everything. If sex is done too soon, it will kill most relationships and end most friendships.
Whether you're a teen or a parent, work to keep the lines of communication open when it comes to dating. Share experiences with one another. With the support of family, a teen can more easily cope with the challenges that dating brings. For more information, visit MaryJoRapini.com.

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Unusual Graduation Gifts

Graduation is a time of celebration, and what better way to recognize the achievement of earning a diploma than with a high school graduation gift? As you shop for the perfect gift for that special grad in your life, consider what makes him or her special, then look for a gift that really shows how proud you are that this young person has reached such an important milestone.

Whether you're looking for a gift that will serve a practical purpose or simply want to mark this important occasion with a symbolic gesture, there are lots of great ideas. Your budget and personal preference will play an important part in determining the perfect present.

For graduates who will be continuing their education, college supplies make helpful gifts. Some ideas include:

Writing utensils like pens, pencils, and highlighters Paper products like notebooks, folders, index cards, and notepads Reference books A desk lamp or fun decorative lighting like a glitter lamp A microwave A small refrigerator A fan if your climate makes a warm dorm room likely Basic cooking supplies Shower supplies like shower shoes and towels Laundry supplies Bedding Blankets, pillows, and throws for comfy lounging around the dorm room A computer chair, a beanbag chair, a TV/video game lounger, or some other seating suitable for a dorm room

Cash is always a welcomed graduation gift. Whether graduates are heading off to college or starting a job, they may be facing unexpected expenses.

Gift certificates

Gift certificates are a great option because they encourage the recipient to splurge. While a gift of cash may be used on practical things like books, a gift certificate to a favorite teen clothing store or a local movie theater allows the student to have some fun. Gift cards for gas stations, fast food restaurants, and major retailers will get the most use. If you're giving a gift certificate with the idea that it will be used at college, make sure the store, restaurant, or movie theater chain is available near campus. Also consider giving a flexible gift card. For instance, get a gift certificate for the mall as a whole rather than one specific store in the mall.

Some gifts are designed solely to commemorate the special occasion:

Oh, The Places You'll Go by Dr. Seuss is a popular high school graduation gift. The book's message rings true for new graduates - there is untold potential in all people as they set out on new adventures. Check your local bookstore for additional graduation-themed books with quotes and inspiring messages. A gift featuring the student's graduation year can be a great way to mark the occasion. From key chains to t-shirts to stuffed animals, you can find just about anything with the graduation year printed on it. Graduation-related figurines can be a great memento. Brands like Precious Moments offer characters dressed in the graduation cap and gown, and you may also find paperweights, book-ends, and small knickknacks featuring diplomas, caps, and tassels. If you know which college the student will be attending in the fall, a shirt, hat, or other item with the name of that school on it can be a good high school graduation gift. Browse stores near graduation time for additional ideas. Gift shops, card shops, and even discount retailers offer a variety of items with inspirational messages.

When you're planning high school graduation gifts for your friends, sometimes the standard gifts just don't fit, and you need some more sentimental ideas. Instead of a gift certificate, consider giving your lifelong friends one of the following:

A photo album or scrapbook of your favorite times together Coupons for activities you can enjoy during your last summer together or IOUs for time together in the fall A CD that reminds you of your senior year A poem, song, painting, or other creative project made by you

The following websites offer a wide variety of other graduation gifts:

Gifts.com - This website offers a great selection of gifts for the graduate. Choose from gift categories, including personalized gifts, going away to college gifts, new job essentials, jewelry gifts for grads, experiential gifts, and more. PersonalCreations.com - From wooden graduation boxes to college party fund jars, you'll find gifts that are serious or whimsical, perfect for any graduate. RedEnvelope.com - If a unique graduation gift is what you're searching for, then Red Envelope is the website for you. Here you'll find special gifts like the pocket compass, floating desktop globe, and the 100 wishes candle set. Tiffany & Co - Choose from exquisite jewelry for her or elegant cuff links for him as well as many other gifts at Tiffany & Co.

When ordering online be sure to look at the shipping and handling policies of the websites you use. In addition, double check any orders that include monogramming, and be sure to print off a copy of your order to ward off any company discrepancies or mistakes. Finally, order as soon as possible so that you can give the gift to the graduate in a timely manner.

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Cheap Junior Cocktail Dresses

Look fabulous without breaking the bank by purchasing stylish cocktail dresses at affordable prices. Junior cocktail dresses are available at a variety of online retailers; however, the key to saving money is shopping at the right time and purchasing early. Look to well-known retailers for amazing deals and smaller, boutique-like, online stores for discounts.

Shopping should be entertaining. If you have a mall near you, head to a store to try dresses on before you purchase. However, you may want to look online for styles you like before trekking out to the store.

Charlotte Russe: Online and in-store, this junior favorite offers cocktail dresses at amazing prices. Depending on the time of year, the company may not carry the dresses in-store or online; therefore, check often to find out when new dresses hit the store or site. Look for cocktail dresses during prom and homecoming season to find a vast selection of reasonably-priced gowns. Lulu's Fashion Lounge: This online-only boutique is known for their low price points, trendy selection of cocktail dresses and amazing deals. Sign up for email alerts to receive discount codes, one-day sale alerts and notifications of mark-downs. You can also save your favorite cocktail dresses into a "wish list" so you do not have to search for them every time to see if they are on sale. Forever 21: The hottest place to shop for the trendiest clothing, Forever 21 will always have a selection of affordable cocktail dresses. The online and in-store shop offer seasonal sales; however, the original prices are so low that if you wait for the dress to go on sale, it may not be there anymore. Since the store often sells out of items quickly, check with a store representative to find out when new shipments arrive. Modcloth: This retro-inspired website offers a variety of cocktail dresses that are inspired by fashions of a bygone era. Browse through the sale section for amazing deals and one-of-a-kind finds for your cocktail dress needs. Macy's: The fabulous thing about Macy's is the sales which makes the search for a cheap dress perfect. Macy's, like other large department stores, begins to lower prices once the season passes; therefore, if you know you will be on the hunt for a cocktail dress then scour the sale racks at Macy's for classic dresses, such as the little black dress. Banana Republic: Known more for classic looks than party dresses, the online store has a wide assortment of cocktail dresses. Sign up for email alerts to find out when sales are approaching. In addition, if you live near a Banana Republic outlet store you are sure to find amazing deals on their cocktail dress selection. Express: Always the classic, yet trendy, style for cocktail dresses. While the sales are fabulous, they are not the only way to score an inexpensive price tag. Get discounts when you sign up for the Express card, give your mailing address or give your email address.

When your budget keeps you from shopping in your favorite stores, consider holding a clothing swap. Cocktail dresses are fancy and may only be worn once or twice. Talk with your friends about a clothing, or dress, swap. Have each friend bring one or two dresses and swap them out with someone else's old frock. Avoid swapping cocktail dresses that are too outdated, falling apart or just plain ugly. The clothing swap is a way to get a "new-to-you" cocktail dress for free. Consider donating the rest of the dresses to a woman's organization.

Another option to consider is refashioning an existing dress you already own. If you, your mother, grandmother or someone else you know is handy with a needle and thread, then transform your dress into something a little trendier.

Remember that just because you are on a budget does not mean you have to sacrifice your style. Shop around and do price comparisons so you get the best deals available. In addition, always check online retailers and look for coupons to help reduce the cost of the dress. Depending on the amount of money you save, you may be able to afford matching heels and jewelry to accompany your new cocktail dress.

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Depression Quiz for Teens

Depression is a serious mental disorder that can be treated. Take this quiz to see if you may be suffering from symptoms of depression. It is always a good idea to talk to a medical professional about the symptoms you are experiencing.

Note: This quiz is for educational purposes only and should not be used diagnostically.

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Gothic Prom Dresses

The combination of the colors red and black is a daring, yet sensual, one. Key to this style is the corset bodice.

The bodice clearly shows that a shiny, croc pattern needn't be white, grey or green in order to stand out.

Additionally, notice that the gloves you choose should match the fabric of your dress; in this case, the skirt.

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Teenagers' Ideal Body Image

Body image is the opinion you hold of your own physical appearance. For many teenagers, body image suffers as they go through the awkward growing years.

Ideally, you want your teenager to be satisfied with his own body. Human beings come in all shapes and sizes, and no one body type should be idealized over another. Your teenager should look in the mirror and see a happy, healthy person who can achieve mental and physical success. Your teenager should be comfortable in clothing, particularly a swimsuit or during physical education class. Defining physical characteristics, such as a bump on his nose or a birthmark, should be embraced as who he is, not viewed as imperfections or flaws to be fixed.

Self-esteem, the mental perception we all hold of ourselves, plays a large role in teen body image. Teenagers who value themselves for traits other than physical ones, such as intellectual or social skills, will likely have a higher opinion of their body images than teenagers who do not. You can encourage positive self-esteem and body image by focusing on nonphysical traits and helping your teenager understand her changing body during adolescence. You should also check your own attitudes about yourself and your physical appearance, as your perceptions can be a huge influence on your teen.

Most teenagers, particularly girls, do not hold an ideal body image of themselves. Recent surveys show body image issues begin long before the teenager years. One study indicated over 40 percent of girls in first through third grades wanted to be skinnier.

Media images bombard your teenager on a daily basis. Celebrities are idealized and touted as perfect on television. Many teenagers do not realize the magic of Hollywood editing and how easily flaws and imperfections can be erased. Sports heroes may not reveal (until they are caught) the use of performance-enhancing drugs to gain muscle mass and more physical agility. Your teenager may look in the mirror after watching the Kids’ Choice Awards and wonder why she doesn’t look like Demi Lovato. What she doesn’t realize is that Demi had a stylist, make-up artist and hairdresser help her get ready for three hours before her five minute camera appearance. 

Peer pressure is another factor in teenager body image. Kids can be cruel and taunting, particularly in the locker room. Many teenagers will avoid participating in gym class because they don’t want to change in front of others. This happens often for a girl who might develop breasts more quickly than her same-age peers. One negative comment can set your teen up for years of hiding under baggy clothes or even worse – eating disorders or excessive exercise.

Thankfully, more celebrities are admitting to just how much work and makeup goes into their media images. Fox News ran a piece called Stars Without Makeup which showed 41 celebrities au natural and all done up. Sites like this can help your teenager see that celebrities are normal and don’t look all that different from real people without all the hype and styling. Watching television with your teenager and talking about what he or she sees can help you gauge their opinion of themselves.  You can then talk to you teen about any misconceptions she has about body image, opening up a dialogue that will hopefully continue throughout the teen years.

Remaining positive and helping your teenager through body image struggles can be difficult for any parent, especially when you see them as a handsome or beautiful. Encourage your teenager to try an exercise program and even offer to work out with them.  Try to be patient if your teenager decides to try a diet or wants to become vegetarian – experimentation is how teenagers learn about life. However, if you suspect an eating disorder or diet pill abuse, you need to talk with her immediately about the danger of these decisions.  Every teenager wants to look good, but a positive body image should not come at the price of a life.

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Back to School Tips for High School Students

Starting school in the fall means several things - school work beginning, new classes, making friends and managing your time. Whether you are an upperclassman or a freshman, having your day and schedule run smoothly will ensure a successful school year and less stress.

Don't just assume a great year is going to fall into your lap. You have to work to make it happen. Whether you're already super organized or you like to procrastinate until the very last minute - the time to plan ahead is before school starts. Use specific strategies to help you not only stay afloat during the school year, but really thrive.

Having an adequate amount of sleep is imperative to a successful high school career. Students who tend to sleep less than eight hours a night may not be as awake or alert during the day. In addition to school work, if you plan to participate in after-school activities or sports, you will need to rest up to do your best.

Always start your school days off with a healthy breakfast to get you through the day until lunch. If you are not a big breakfast eater, then consider eating a protein bar or smoothie to stave off hunger. If you tend to eat later in the morning, you may want to carry a small snack to munch on between classes before lunch. If you do not like the school lunch, you can pack lunch to take to school. This way you have exactly the kinds of foods you enjoy.

There are several types of locker organization systems available. Choose a shelving system that allows you to store your books and folders in an upright position. This will be especially helpful for when you are rushing to your locker between classes. In addition, hang a magnetic, dry erase board on the inside door to help you keep track of the day's to-do list.

Purchase color-coded binders to use for each class. This will not only help when you are looking in your locker for a specific class, but you can also store all the class notes in one area without mixing them up with another class. Choose binders with a clear front sleeve that allows you to display a weekly class calendar.

There is no reason to be shy with new people. Whether you are returning to high school, or you are new, talk with the people around you. Look to your left and right, and meet the people on either side of your locker - they'll be there all year long. In addition to making friends, talking with people may help you with class work and trying out for sports.

Look at the list of after school sports and clubs available to you. Pick something that interests you, and join the team. This not only looks good on your college resume, but it is a great way to meet people, exercise your brain or body and show your school spirit.

Newbies should always attend school orientation. Even students who are going into their senior years will want to attend orientation. It is a great way to meet students, teachers and hear what is going on with the class.

Do not slink into the back row of a classroom because you will get called on more, and you may not hear everything the teacher has to say. Stick near the front or middle, unless you have assigned seats, for the best experience.

Assign a place at home that is your designated homework area. This area should be off-limits to anyone besides you during your designated homework time. Choose an area that is free of distractions, such as a desk in your room or dining room table, so you can concentrate on school work.

Lay out your clothes, books and other things you may need for the following day of school. If you pack your own lunch, consider doing it the night before to cut down on the morning rush.

Before heading out the first day of school, take a moment to breathe. Your high school years will fly past and soon you will be heading off to college. Take time to meet new people, participate in after school activities and study hard. Good luck!

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Tween Summer Fashions

By the time summer rolls around, you’re ready to ditch those heavy sweaters and boots in favor of the hottest tween summer fashions. Don’t worry. Neither you nor your parents need to spend big bucks on a ton of new clothes. There are a few affordable key pieces to include in your warm-weather wardrobe that will leave you looking cool in the hot temperatures.

Just because the temperatures are soaring doesn’t mean you have to sport the same old shorts and t-shirt uniform. Shake up your usual get up with some of the hottest, celebrity-inspired fashion trends for summer.

If you think ruffles are too sweet and little girl for your taste, think again. Ruffles are back in a big way. The trick is to not OD on the ruffle trend and only sport it in moderation for a look that’s flirty and feminine, not too young-looking. Look for a lightweight spaghetti strap dress with ruffle detail or a tee with ruffle-trimmed sleeves to get in on this trend.

Seen all over celebs such as Miley Cyrus and Taylor Swift, bold floral patterns are girly but with an edge. Look for sundresses in bold hues, such as vivid blue, red, purple, and pink that have a large flower motif throughout. You can also try this look on a romper, which is perfect for a more casual feel. Pair with metallic flat sandals, and you’re ready to beat the heat in style.

A long, flowy maxi dress is an absolute summer staple for any fashion-savvy tween. When done in a lightweight cotton, it’s super comfortable and breathable and perfect for just throwing on at a moment’s notice. You can wear your maxi as a beach or pool cover up or just for hanging on the boardwalk with friends or at a backyard BBQ. You'll always look put together. Pair yours with one of the biggest summer accessory trends, the leather studded bracelet.

While the cutoff denim mini skirt will always be a classic, why not update the look by choosing a mini in a cool corduroy fabric instead? Fine cabled corduroy is every bit as lightweight and breathable as a regular cotton or denim, and you can wear it in bold colors that scream summer, such as turquoise, fuchsia, purple or yellow. You can also scoop one up in a wear-with-everything neutral hue, such as beige or khaki.

You may think tie dye was only cool when your parents were young, but the effect is back in a big way. In summer, you'll see it on everything from bathing suits to tanks and tees and dresses. You can pick up store-bought tie dyed items, or do it the old fashioned way and grab a white t-shirt and your friends and tie dye at home. That way you can choose the colors you want and mix and match to suit your style.

It may be tempting to don the same old rubber flip flops day in and day out, but give your feet an update by sporting some of the hottest shoe trends for summer. Try some of these great styles.

Sometimes you want your toes covered, like when you haven’t been able to get a pedicure or when the temperatures are unusually cool at nighttime. Flats with girly details such as quilting, jewels, or bows are cute and can even take you into the fall.

Wedges are great for giving short girls a little height boost without the difficulty of teetering on heels. Wedges in natural shades and fabrics, such as brown leather or natural cork, are perfect for day or night and match anything in your wardrobe.

Metallic is chic and trendy and classic at the same time. Try a metallic sandal in lieu of your favorite broken in flip flops to give an instant update to even the most casual outfit.

You only need a few key pieces to give your wardrobe an update for summer with the hottest tween summer fashions. By scooping up a couple of new items and mixing them with what you already own, you can give your closet an instant makeover without breaking the bank.

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Red Junior Dresses

Pair a simple, short red dress with white leggings, a wide black leather belt, and a leather jacket for a unique back-to-school look. Also wear a dress like this over blue jeans for a casual appearance.

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A Wilderness Camp Experience: Interview with Dillon

If you've just heard that you are on your way to a wilderness camp or you're a parent who wonders if the wilderness camp experience will change your troubled teen's direction, meet Dillon. Dillon is a graduate of a wilderness camp, and LoveToKnow had the chance to hear about his struggles and triumphs and how he changed his life for the better.

LoveToKnow (LTK): What made you go to a wilderness camp?

Dillon (D): I was on probation for doing drugs at school. I was on probation and went to DT. Every time I got out I messed up again. I was doing drugs, so I got into trouble with probation, and then I ran away. They put me into the wilderness camp.

LTK: What were some of your thoughts before entering the treatment at the wilderness camp?

D: 45 days is going to take forever. I hope I pass the program and am not locked up again after this. I didn't really want to cut my hair. I liked my hair long. If I didn't cut my hair, I would fail the program and get locked up in DT, so I let them shave my head.

LTK: What was a normal day like at the camp?

D: Wake up in the morning, brush my teeth, put on overalls and a cowboy hat and boots. We wore a uniform under overalls. We would go to breakfast, stand in line, and say our goals of the day and the ten cowboy ethics. The ones I remember are:

Know where to draw the line. Always finish what you start. Be tough, but fair.

We fed horses, cows, chickens and lamas hay and gave them water to drink. We milked cows and shoveled cow poop. Sometimes during free time we were able to ride horses. We had group therapy at night.

LTK: What surprised you the most about the wilderness camp?

D: How much we had to hike on the trek. How much I could handle that I didn't think I could handle. I felt really good about myself afterwards.

LTK: What are some other experiences you would like to share?

D: Sleeping in caves, drinking from rivers, and being out in nature gave me a lot of alone time think about things. Group therapy helped me learn about people and teamwork. It was spiritual, and many of the boys ended up in tears.

LTK: Who did you find to be the most supportive to you?

D: My guide because he helped with all my questions and assignments.

LTK: How was your family involved in your treatment?

D: My mom and grandpa went up to visit me a couple times. We had family therapy so I could get along with them better. We would talk stuff out and work stuff out that we were going through.

LTK: Did you make friends with anyone at the wilderness camp? Do you keep in touch with them now?

D: Yeah, sometimes I stay in touch on the Internet. There is one person I still talk to about once a week.

LTK: What were some of the most important lessons you learned at the wilderness camp?

D: I learned to be a hard worker. I also learned how to deal with things better without doing drugs. I realized how I hurt people.

LTK: Do you believe that the experience has positively affected your life?

D: I remember what I learned. Sometimes I wish I could go back and do it over again.

LTK: What do you think would have happened if you weren't court ordered to the wilderness camp?

D: I probably would have kept partying and stayed on drugs.

LTK: Do you have any tips for teens who are about to attend a wilderness camp?

D: It may seem like it's hard. You might not want to do it and follow the rules, but it's worth it. You will find that it's fun after awhile. It's good to be away from druggy friends.

LTK: What are some tips for teens who are not going into a wilderness camp but may be headed in that direction.

D: I want to say that a life of partying and all that isn't worth it. It may seem fine now, but it's not in the end. You'll lose friends, become homeless, and drop out of school because of drugs. Most of the time you will have medical issues because of your dependence on the drugs. Drugs will affect your memory, and you'll be haunted by bad memories. Drugs also affect your sleep by giving you nightmares.

LoveToKnow Teens would like to thank Dillon for taking the time to share his experience and wishes him the best in his future.

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Stages of Puberty - No more acne

I don´t know if it was puberty or hormonal upheaval but friends I do know this, my teenage years were miserable because of one thing: Acne.

Well, based on what some people say about Positive thinking and all, I guess I allowed it to have too much control over me. However, at that age, how the heck was I to know about all that? Moreover, with bumps, bumps and more bumps all over my face, it was kind of hard you know. I doubt if any girl would have wanted to kiss a guy with a big red bump nestled on his lip today or his nose the next.

Needless to say those were sad years and had I known then what I know now about acne, folks, it would have been a different story. Either way it goes, I still come across helpless and understandably sad teenagers almost on a daily basis so if it helps any: if you are a teenager or know of a teenager who is plagued with pimples, here are a few tips that should help you cure your acne in no time.

1. First and foremost, I care not what some sites and product endorsers say about how diet doesn't affect acne; you have got to make a change in your eating habits, plain and simple, this includes water! You are what you eat (and drink). If you want to have clearer skin and the added bonus of improved health, of course eating right will be essential. That said: Fruits and vegetables are your friends. Shop more in the produce aisle and steer clear of the snack stands at the cash register, and remember that 1 glass of coke or sugary pop drink needs 35 glasses of water to neutralise its effects on your body. I know it may sound boring for a teenager but trust me, it's worth the sacrifice and this forms the basis of an internal acne treatment right there from its root cause.

2.For external acne-care, you could learn such simple tips as facial massaging and exercises. However, (now I'm speaking from what I went through and believe me I had acne BAD) simply washing your face with nothing but clean hands and plain cool water may perhaps be the most efficient way to clean the pores. Combined with the facial massaging and occasional steaming of the face, this will be very sufficient to clean the skin.

3. Change your pillowcases daily and make sure you have a towel exclusively for your face or you could employ the use of paper towels.

4. If you use greasy hair-products, shampoo the hair before retiring or at least use a clean do-rag to hinder the introduction of oily substances to the pillowcase and inevitably your face while asleep.

5. On that subject, try to also sleep on the right side. Besides checking against contaminations getting on the face, this is great for the heart and lungs and allows for a better and restful sleep (which co-incidentally helps with controlling acne.)

6. Deal with stressful situations amicably. This is another topic into itself but briefly these work: Proper diet (factor #1), proper thinking habits and exercise.

For stress, allow me to mention Yoga/meditation-don't have the space to explain why, but friends, with its sun-exercises and its derivative, Hindu push-ups, Yoga is awesome for stress-relief. Moreover, for teenagers who are more likely to engage in sports and other recreational activities, you'll be getting the added advantage of improving your fitness levels and with your own body weight at that.

Boy, had I known of some of these in my time. Well, don't let the story of my teenage years be yours, a sad one because of one thing-Acne.

With the tips above, I can confidently assure you it won't be the case.
Just remember you owe me and my payment is to pass it on to your friends if they need it. (I want every teen with acne to know of this chuckle)

Here's to a clearer skin naturally.
Puberty is often a challenging time of change for both boys and girls as they move into the stages of adolescence and adulthood. During puberty, a child’s body goes through a period of development, in which her body is transformed into what she will become. These changes are the result of hormone secretions, which is also why this is an emotionally-charged time, loaded with mood swings. Teens are attempting to navigate their feelings and understand the changes within themselves, as well as their relationships to others during this time.
According to Mass General Hospital for Children, there are certain hormones which are responsible for the onset of puberty. Gonadotropin-releasing hormone is released by the hypothalamus in the brain, where it moves to the pituitary gland. This gland is responsible for releasing other important hormones that are also involved with puberty: luteinizing hormone (LH) and follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH). Boys begin to produce testosterone when these hormones travel to the testes, in a process that creates sperm. In girls, LH and FSH stimulate the ovaries to begin releasing eggs during ovulation, which leads to menstruation.
The adrenal glands, which are small glands that sit on top of the kidneys, are responsible for releasing adrenal androgens, hormones which are important for hair growth in both boys and girls.
Girls start puberty earlier than boys, beginning sometimes as early as 8 years old and lasting until about the age of 16. This age range varies among girls and the changes that occur may happen earlier for some and later for others.
Breast development is one of the earliest signs of puberty. Girls initially develop breast buds, which are small lumps that form under the nipples. During this time, a girl may begin to wear a training bra in preparation for continued breast growth. The breasts continue to grow for the next several years through puberty.
A girl will begin to develop pubic hair, which is also one of the earliest stages of puberty. Dark hair begins to grow near the labia and over the pubic bone. Later in puberty, hair growth will develop underneath the arms. The increase in hormones causes more oil production, particularly on the face, resulting in acne.
Girls go through a growth spurt, where they sprout up in height several inches. They also develop more fat around the hips, breasts and thighs. This additional padding is the body’s way of preparing women for carrying babies in pregnancy.
Vaginal discharge starts to occur before actual menstruation. A girl may start her first period between the ages of 9 and 16, but it may take several years before she has regular, monthly menstrual cycles. Girls may have much insecurity during this time, particularly pertaining to their appearances. They may compare themselves with others who have developed more and who need to wear bras or those who are menstruating.
Boys begin puberty approximately one to two years after girls, which may cause some feelings of concern or anxiety. Boys typically begin puberty between the ages of 9 and 10, and continue developing until they are about 17 to 18 years old. Puberty follows a series of stages, which may vary slightly among boys. Some boys may begin showing signs of chages at 9 years old, while others may not change much until closer to 12 years.
A boy will grow taller, between 1 to 2 inches in growth spurts, during the early phases of puberty, and then will continue to grow in height into the teen years. His hands and feet may grow at a faster rate than the rest of his body, which may lead to a clumsy phase. His voice will begin to deepen, leading to vocal cracks while speaking. Eventually, his shoulders will broaden, and he will grow into his hands and feet, his body filling out into that of an adult man.
In the early stages of puberty, a boy begins to grow some pubic hair. The penis and scrotum increase in size. He will have more frequent erections and experience ejaculation and nocturnal emissions, also referred to as “wet dreams.”
The early stages of puberty will result in initial hair growth in the pubic area, which will continue to grow throughout puberty. As a boy enters his teens, he will grow hair under his arms and on his face. Hormone changes may lead to an overproduction of oil from the sebaceous glands, which can lead to acne.
Boys may have many concerns during this time. They may feel shorter than their peers or even some of the girls in their classes, which can cause anxiety. Additionally, sexual feelings and an increase in the number of erections may be stressful for some boys to try to manage.
Puberty can be a very insecure period for both boys and girls. During this time, teens also develop more friendships, and relationships include romantic and sexual feelings. It may be difficult for both teens and parents to know what to expect during these stages. Kids need to know that the changes that are happening are normal and expected. You can assure your child that you love her regardless of her appearance or if she is developing at a different rate than her peers. Reassure your child that she can talk with you about her feelings and that you will be there to help her through some of these rough patches. Managing the many changes associated with puberty may be difficult, but maintaining open and honest communication with your teen is one of the best methods for helping her get through these stages.

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Fashion Trends for Teenagers Gallery

Given that self expression through fashion is especially revered by the teenage set, it is no surprise that the 2011 fashion trends for teenagers are some of the most varied in recent history. In fact, "history" is a big part of current fashion trends - teenagers have added modern details to popular looks from the '70s, '80s and '90s to give old-fashioned trends a new, fresh feel.

Take, for instance, cross-body bags. These were big in the 70s, then again in the 90s, but the 2011 favorite is smaller, daintier and features chunky buckles and hardware along with distressed leather detailing or fringe. The result is a dainty "saddle bag" look reminescent of oldtime Western movies like this cross-body bag by Bryna.

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Outward Bound for Troubled Teens: Interview with Seth Ruggles

LoveToKnow had the opportunity to interview Seth Ruggles, customer service representative for Outward Bound Intercept Program for troubled teens. If your teenager has started down the wrong path, you may be interested in learning more about this at-risk youth program to help your teen get his or her life back on track.

LoveToKnow (LTK): How does Outward Bound help troubled teens?

Seth Ruggles (SR): Outward Bound helps troubled teens by giving them an extremely positive experience, which is challenging physically and emotionally. We take students out of their comfort zone, which shows them the potential they have not been able to see up to this point.

LTK: What types of problems do teens have in this program?

SR: The teens involved in the Intercept Program, which is one of our at-risk programs in Outward Bound, are generally having issues with poor school performance, anger management, defiance, low motivation, and are engaging in risky behaviors such as drugs, alcohol, sneaking out, or truancy. In general, parents start to see a trend of bad decisions, falling/failing grades, hanging out with a new/wrong crowd, and they want to step in and give their son or daughter a life experience before more serious behaviors present themselves.

LTK: What are typical days like at the program?

SR: A typical day on an Intercept expedition is to wake up with the sun (they camp from day one), break down camp, have breakfast, go over the expedition route for the day, pack up, and head out on the lake, river, or trail. Students are "on" from sun up to sun down continuing on their expedition route and travelling from campsite to campsite. The students and staff travel as a group, rain or shine. Once camp is reached, students have chores such as getting water for the group, setting up the kitchen and getting dinner ready, and setting up their tents or tarps, depending on the location. After dinner, there are group discussions and lessons as well as route planning for the next day. Then it's off to bed for a well deserved night sleep until the morning.

LTK: How much support do teens receive from the program - who is involved in the experience?

SR: During our expeditions, we have a staff-to-student ratio of one staff member to four students. The Intercept Program is extremely structured and with increased staff-to-student ratio, the students receive a great deal of support and positive recognition of their accomplishments. Individual interviews as well as group lessons on decision making versus consequence, anger management, conflict resolution, responsibility versus freedom, as well as communication skills are all integral parts of the Intercept Program. Safety is of the highest priority, both physically and emotionally, for all students while on any Outward Bound course. Our staff are trained in both technical skills and facilitative skills with an emphasis on behavior management. Intercept is designed to be a first stage intervention and as a result, we do not serve youth with serious addictions and/or current criminal background within this program.

LTK: How long are the sessions?

SR: Our 12 and 13 year old courses are 20 days in length, 14-17 and 18-20 year old courses are 28 days in length, and we offer 50-day semesters for 16-18 year olds as well as 18-20 year olds. Unlike other at-risk programs out there, we have a set length for our Intercept expeditions and work with our students to reach the ultimate goal of graduating course.

LTK: Where are the programs located?

SR: Our Intercept courses are located in Maine, Minnesota, California, Florida, and Alabama. The expeditions involve canoeing, backpacking, rock climbing, and/or a ropes course element depending on which base camp it runs out of.

LTK: What is your success rate (if you have one) - what are some of the reasons why some teens do not find success at Outward Bound?

SR: Surveys filled out by students both pre and post course show significant to extensive growth in the areas of Character Development (self confidence, self actualization, compassion, and living a healthy life), Leadership (goal setting, conflict resolution, group collaboration, and problem solving), and Service (both social and environmental responsibility). Students who complete the Intercept Program have a decrease in school problems, family conflict, substance use/abuse as well as an increase in self-esteem and confidence.

Some teens do not find success at Outward Bound because they are not at a point of seeing a need to make any changes in their life. If a student is unwilling to participate in the course or does not follow our policies, they are asked to withdraw.

LTK: What about after they leave the program - do teens have any type of continuum support or how does the program continue to help after the teen leaves?

SR: Due to the numbers of students served we cannot personally support them after they leave this program. We do provide the students, as well as the parents, with resources if they need additional support once they leave the program.

LTK: How are families involved in the experience at Outward Bound?

SR: At the end of all of the courses (minus the 18-20 courses) we require at least one parent or guardian to attend a seminar that is facilitated by the instructors who were working with the students during the expedition. The purpose of the seminar is to give the parents an overview of what we have been working on with their son or daughter for the past 25 days.

We also teach the parents the skills and tools we have taught their teenager so once both return home, they will have the same tools to build a more open and trusting relationship.

During the seminar, we also facilitate a one-on-one with the parents and instructor that has been working with their son or daughter. Instructors meet with the family to create a plan to assist them in a successful transition home continuing on the positive path created during their course.

LTK: What are some tips for teens who are about to enter the program?

SR: One tip is to realize everyone is nervous going into expeditions and it is to be expected. It is a normal reaction when one is going into a different environment, taking part in activities they have never done with people they don't know. It is a great idea to prepare for courses both physically and mentally. Outward Bound has found that coming physically fit to courses enables the student to have an even better experience, and coming in with the right mindset is a huge plus as well. Lastly, remember it is going to be hard, but it is going to be fun!

LTK: What are some tips for parents who may be interested in using a program such as this one for their teen?

SR: One tip is when introducing the Intercept Program to their son or daughter to try have their child view it as an opportunity rather than a punishment. Another tool is to take them to our website to have him/her watch videos or read testimonials from past students. You can view our videos and testimonials at OutwardBound.org. Lastly, most students in the beginning are resistant, which is to be expected. In most cases, when they find out more about the program, what they will be doing, and there is less of the "unknown," they tend to be more willing to attend and have an experience in the wilderness they will remember for a lifetime.

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By: Athar

While we were in Cannes Brad asked me to throw out a number for Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides. I went with $106m, a number that now looks around 25 percent heavy. Whoops. That's what I get for not factoring in the overall decline of the franchise. Let's break it down!Laremy predicted the #1 movie correctly 3 Weeks In A RowThere are two factors that could still push it toward a $100m opening. The first is the 3-D toll. Will you pay extra for it? There are at least two scenes it is used for, so enjoy! The second is the length, theaters should be able to get in at least an additional screening time per day given the 126 minute running time. I'd also be remiss if I didn't mention there is an end credits scene. It's no Fast Five end credits scene, but I feel like you should head in equipped if you're taking the plunge.

With all that in mind, the smart money is still in the $80 - $90m range. The second version made $32k per screen, while At World's End managed only $26k. So if we take another $6k per screen away, and then add in another thousand per screen to cover 3-D and extra times you get $84m. But as the max here is something around $120m and the minimum $72m, I'm definitely more bearish here. I should also note that it's going to crush internationally.

Prediction: $84.42 million

$357m worldwide on a budget of $150m means this little gamble paid off, especially given the main goal had to be getting Avengers near $750m worldwide. Paramount is playing the long game.The great untold story of last weekend was that Bridesmaids was the champion of the weekend ... per theater. Shoulda put that bad boy in 3-D, eh?$458m on $125m means that they'll throw money at whomever they need to to ensure F6st and Fa7t. They are playing with house money.Still, it had to have been better than The Tourist, right? They played Salt and The Tourist back to back on my flight back from France. I tried to walk out.Another hit, $433m on a $90m production budget. Looks like Eisenberg can demand a voiceover raise.The budget was just too high for this sort of project.This, on the other hand, was made for a fiscally responsible $6.6m. Which means it is all profit from here on out.It's not going to hit $70m domestically, but it's got a great shot at $100m worldwide.A million bucks and you too can make the top ten!

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By: Stiggy

While we were in Cannes Brad asked me to throw out a number for Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides. I went with $106m, a number that now looks around 25 percent heavy. Whoops. That's what I get for not factoring in the overall decline of the franchise. Let's break it down!Laremy predicted the #1 movie correctly 3 Weeks In A RowThere are two factors that could still push it toward a $100m opening. The first is the 3-D toll. Will you pay extra for it? There are at least two scenes it is used for, so enjoy! The second is the length, theaters should be able to get in at least an additional screening time per day given the 126 minute running time. I'd also be remiss if I didn't mention there is an end credits scene. It's no Fast Five end credits scene, but I feel like you should head in equipped if you're taking the plunge.

With all that in mind, the smart money is still in the $80 - $90m range. The second version made $32k per screen, while At World's End managed only $26k. So if we take another $6k per screen away, and then add in another thousand per screen to cover 3-D and extra times you get $84m. But as the max here is something around $120m and the minimum $72m, I'm definitely more bearish here. I should also note that it's going to crush internationally.

Prediction: $84.42 million

$357m worldwide on a budget of $150m means this little gamble paid off, especially given the main goal had to be getting Avengers near $750m worldwide. Paramount is playing the long game.The great untold story of last weekend was that Bridesmaids was the champion of the weekend ... per theater. Shoulda put that bad boy in 3-D, eh?$458m on $125m means that they'll throw money at whomever they need to to ensure F6st and Fa7t. They are playing with house money.Still, it had to have been better than The Tourist, right? They played Salt and The Tourist back to back on my flight back from France. I tried to walk out.Another hit, $433m on a $90m production budget. Looks like Eisenberg can demand a voiceover raise.The budget was just too high for this sort of project.This, on the other hand, was made for a fiscally responsible $6.6m. Which means it is all profit from here on out.It's not going to hit $70m domestically, but it's got a great shot at $100m worldwide.A million bucks and you too can make the top ten!

How say you? Wanna go higher or lower on Pirates of the Caribbean: On Stranger Tides? Have a different idea on Thor or Bridesmaids? Predictions away!

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